Tag: spiral trail

  • The Wasp of Damocles

    The Wasp of Damocles

    A wasp strolled leisurely across my cheek as I sat on my porch meditating this morning. There’s a whole nest under there. And eventually, I’m going to have to crawl down there past the dog poo and the spiders and shoot it out with the hose. But in the meantime, the wasps and I coexist.…

  • The Key to Big Steps Forward Is The Opposite

    The Key to Big Steps Forward Is The Opposite

    Doing the thing is hard. Your nervous system starts screaming every time you head towards the unknown, the new, the creative, the wondrous. Or it distracts you, comes up with 10 million excuses, demands clarity or certainty you can’t provide. But you know that doing the thing is what stands between you and everything you…

  • Thresholds and Resistance

    Thresholds and Resistance

    There’s a reason why the land of the dead so often has an escort in mythology. Anubis, the Valkyries, the Grim Reaper – all appear at the moment of the death of one life to walk with you through the gateway into the next. They are called psychopomps. These are keepers of the threshold, the…

  • The Fish Tank Problem: Finding the Conditions to Thrive

    The Fish Tank Problem: Finding the Conditions to Thrive

    I had promised my son a fish for his 6th birthday. He had been saving money to help cover the cost for months, and was bouncing next to me on his tip toes with excitement. But as I looked at the cart – packed full of random oddments I had never imagined a fish needed…

  • On Grief

    On Grief

    It’s not the same as sadness. You can let go of desire for the thing you lost, and sadness goes away. But grief is a gift that keeps on giving. Grief is love – something essential to our life force, something pure and good and true – that has nowhere to go. It’s a hole…